Had a huge fight with mom over the usual topic of not getting married. As always, I was accused of not wanting to get married, I was told my expectations are too high, that I was being stubborn and rigid.My profile on a matrimony website was not right. What the ...? Is it wrong to expect your life after marriage to be different from what is before. Is it wrong if I tell people that I enjoy an occasional vodka and yes, I have been to a Hukka Bar. I am not announcing this from rooftops. Just a casual mention. Does that make me a bad person, or a bad woman. I am not the ideal naive Indian woman, I like what I like and know my limits. I prefer jeans, kurtis and sneakers to the Saree and jewellery. Yes, I am more comfortable in a Chudidar/salwar- Kurta, is that blasphemy. If yes, hang me. Balls. Stop telling me what to do. It is this freaking society that scares the shit out of parents who accept their as they are, but there is this occasional panic attack when a friendly acquaintance tells them about their child. Gawd, what is it with the world?
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